Couples Who Keep Separate Surnames Divorce 50% More, Study Finds

Marriages with separate surnames tend to end about 30% sooner, averaging 8 to 10 years before filing compared to about 12 years for couples with a shared name, per the Institute for Family Studies.

That is the headline finding of a new analysis by researcher Lyman Stone, who combined 2023 Pew Research Center survey data with Texas divorce records to see how surname choice tracks with marital stability.

The Numbers Behind the Names

The gap is not subtle. Couples with different last names call it quits at a 50% higher rate than those who share one, and they do it faster.

Shared-surname couples last about 12 years on average before a divorce filing. Separate-surname couples average eight to ten years.

Nationwide, roughly 75 to 80 percent of married couples still share a surname, so the separate-name cohort remains the minority.

Why Researchers Think This Happens

Stone is careful to say a name change does not cause a marriage to fail. Surname choice, he argues, is a signal of other differences between couples.

"Couples who hold more things in common, from names to money, are more likely to take a team-first approach to marriage life that reinforces cooperation, trust, and a sense of a common future," he wrote.

He also suggests selection effects. Separate names can select for hasty, spur-of-the-moment weddings, while paperwork friction may keep shared-name couples together longer. Changing a legal name back is a hassle, and that bureaucratic hurdle may discourage some divorces.

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